
What if “strong” leadership is actually soft?
For decades, leadership has been packaged as power.
We’ve been told that the “strong” leader is composed, stoic, unshakeable, and infallible.
But that myth has done more damage than we realize.
Because no team needs a robot in charge. They don’t need perfection. They don’t even need someone who has all the answers.
They need a human.
Why Vulnerability Is Strength
We often confuse vulnerability with weakness. But it’s the opposite. Vulnerability is a leader saying:
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“I don’t have all the answers, but I trust us to find them.”
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“I made a mistake, and here’s what I’ve learned.”
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“This challenge scares me too, but together we can face it.”
Far from diminishing authority, this kind of honesty builds trust. It shows courage. It sets the tone for a culture where people can speak up, take risks, and innovate without fear.
The Cost of the Armour
When leaders wear armour—pretending they’re always strong and composed—it creates distance. Teams start to hide their struggles, mistakes, and doubts.
Innovation stalls. Engagement drops. Burnout rises.
Ironically, the very attempt to appear “strong” leads to weaker organisations.
The Future of Leadership Is Human
Strength today isn’t about being untouchable—it’s about being open.
It’s about creating connection, not distance.
As leaders, the challenge is to model what real strength looks like:
– Feeling deeply—and still showing up.
– Admitting mistakes—and learning out loud.
– Leading with courage—not control.
That’s the kind of leadership that inspires trust and builds resilient, high-performing teams.
Your Next Step
This week, notice where you’re wearing the mask of “strong leadership.”
Could you let it slip—just enough—to let your team see you?
Because when you do, you don’t lose respect. You gain loyalty.
And that’s when leadership stops being performance—and becomes transformation.
If you’re ready to step into more human, courageous leadership—and bring your team with you—let’s talk.
Reach out to book a call with Isabel.






